Ummm  excuse me….   but when you ‘SAY’ you don’t do ass play, that you can’t take anything bigger than a finger and the entire fist falls in with no blood, screams of stretching pain, ,

Your worth is only comparable to what you give freely, without expectation of return, giving loving and treating people as you would have them treat you.  WITH OUT MANIPULATIONS.

Just so that everyone is clear Communication is KEY to any relationship.  ….

asking for aftercare nearly after a week of ignoring your “tops”, even after they have checked in with the day after play and the day after that, DOES NOT DENOTE Neglect or mistreatment on the part of the TOP.  Your cries of receiving no aftercare are null and void.