Random sweet little nothing text, tweets, brief phone calls, and/or pictures are nice but in no way define a relationship.
Pretend all you want online.
It doesn’t mean shit unless Your face to face day in and day out.
Seeing and feeling every emotion someone has.
Being there for them, all of them. Instead of just seeing the face that is presented to you at the time… the one hidden behind the computer, disguised by happy text or a false jovial voice on the other end of a 30 min conversation.