Just as love does not equal sex and sex does not equal love
The same is true that BDSM & Kink do not equate to sex and visa versa
You can have sex without love and love with out sex. It’s really amazing when they both happen together. As is true for BDSM and Kink combined with sex and/or love… Mega WOW!
I am finding that for me there is no real good one with out the other.
Sex with him, satisfying him is good.
Kink with my friends, and satisfying their desire is okay and sometimes good.
It would be more than gratifying, for me, if the two worlds combined.